Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Emotionally Drained but Must Charge On

"If it was easy, then everyone would do it!"
No one ever said it was easy to achieve your dreams but sometimes it can be so exhausting! haha You can admit or not, but it's not always easy and I don't mind admitting that. That's just real talk. I can't help anyone by pretending like it's always roses and sunshine.
There are days when I feel so frustrated by so many different things. There are days when I feel exhausted and I wonder if it's actually worth it. There are days when I get so mad because someone tells me to do exactly what I had suggested 6 months ago! And I feel like knocking them on their head and saying "I told you so!"
But I don't stress those days anymore. Because the reality is that if you believe in what you're doing, then that's all you need. You need that faith and belief in yourself.
One of my co-workers recently asked me how come I always seem so at ease and that's exactly what I said. I just know. I just believe. And nothing and no one can sway me from that, end of story. So no matter how hard, no matter how many hills I feel like I'm climbing, no matter how many brick walls I bang my head against; I don't sweat it, because I just know.
We will get there. With hardwork and determination, we will get there.
So no matter what you're dream is, don't give up on it if you truly believe that you have something to offer. Sometimes it doesn't happen when you think it should or the way that you planned it, but when it is meant to happen, it will.
So keep your faith and charge on. And on a day where you may feel a little tired, take a breather and come back fresh tomorrow.
But never, ever give up!

79 comments:

  1. what is your dream? jay seans wife?

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  2. there are millions of people with real problems, stop bitching

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  3. wow! thank you!! :)

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  4. You are AMAZING Thara. I love reading what you have to say, and you are so so right about not giving up. Thank you for bringing a smile to my face! <3 :)

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  5. Being Jay seans wife isn't a dream, it's a reality. CAN NOT wait for the day the truth comes out. Can't believe his management and record label support such a lie but the fact that his wife supports it too is a pity and sad. He is lying so that he pockets more money. His fanbase of ladies carry on buying his music and he pockets the cash if he is seen to be single. They reckon he will lose fans if he's in a relationship but wait til fans find out they are being lied to. Next blog should be about TRUTH VS DECEPTION Thara.

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  6. Its so sad that someone has to post "Anonymous" b/c they are too cowardly to reveal their face and real identity. It is sad to see that people waste their time with negative energy. If you are not a supporter or have something useful to say, why waste your time reading the blog in the 1st place. I am guessing they have a lot of time in their hands, so they make it their business to read everything.

    I guess they are one of those closet fans that hide behind their keyboard miles away, following our every move and reading our every tweet. What gives them any right to have any sort of opinion? I guess we will never know b/c they are too misguided and foolish for us to understand. Blogs like this are not a place for hate and idiotic opinions, but its probably hard to get that through to someone who can not conceptualize normal thoughts.

    I vote for the next blog post to be Cowards that hide on the internet vs people with real opinions...

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  7. Your positive posts and blogs always help me get through the day! People like you really do make the world a better place :) We Love You Thara!!!!!

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  8. THARA fuck them haters dont wori about them they just good for nothing scum bags who have nothin better to do u awesome girl always so inspiring n i love u for that...:) well said nidish ;)

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  9. stop lying to your fans

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  10. Wow! First of all, before I mention the flaws of individuals... I'd like to Thank You Thara for taking time out to send out this inspirational message. Obviously, you are looking for the best for each and every individual, just as it should and could be. Individuals these days shed their negativity off on others thinking it may affect our lives, which in turn brings nothing but 2 folds of negativity back onto their backs. Like Nidhish said, I am sorry to see that people have the time and energy to even complete their negative thoughts by typing them onto here. Life goes on Anonymous, why so serious? Don't stress, & certainly don't hate! I do have to admit, haters are the ones who make me stronger. They give me that little smirk of assurance to let me know that I am doing something right. Like Thara said, "Life isn't easy": so our job is to embrace that hate and transform it. Once again, Thank You Thara. Keep doing what you do, obviously it's the right path... Much love.

    Life is simple, it's just not easy.

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  11. nice blog Thara!:)very positive... you give us the strength to continue to pursue our dream:)you and jay are the example that if there is a commitment through hard work you can make dreams come true! i love u guys:)!thanks for Everything!!

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  12. wow Thara did you really just delete my post because I had something important to say?

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  13. fucking bitch you did just delete my post not only do you not say the truth but you don't let others say it as well.

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  14. Wow Anonymous how old are you? Do you start cursing when you can't handle yourself or get your way? You sound like a little child that hasn't learned the vocabulary yet.

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  15. Ami, I'm probably older than you are because you haven't yet understood that Thara is a big liar and a fake. Thara, if you don't want people to express their opinions then don't let people comment or DON'T DELETE MY POST NEXT TIME!!! I had a little respect for you before, now, none at all. Jay's the only one in the whole crew that respects the fans, none of you others do.

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  16. I am the person that nidish replies to calling me a coward. Listen nid poppa... If u all are gonna lie then u gotta face te circumstances. I AM NOT A HATER but I actually am a fan of jays music. I don't fancy him it envy thara as I'm happily in a relationship and u actually like thara's Tweets. I don't like the fact they are lying to fans and as a result lying to me and potentially to young girls who could be daughters/sisters to someone who cares what's influencing them. Just tell the truth and deal with fans accepting he's taken rather than later when fans will hate both thara and Jay for the deception. U know it makes sense. I ain't got time to be a hater or comment on their decisions or lives but I'm angry as I know for a fact me and others are being lied to.

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  17. What's going on here?? Everyone is entitled to have an opinion whether good or bad but don't swear. I agree with nidish but if what that person said thara is lying to fans being married to Jay jut so they make more money then that/those individual is entitled to comment. Why lie?? That's a major thing to keep from fans. Then again who would care if he was married, it's about the music!!

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  18. you are lying to your fans so you can cash in on jay seans single status.
    have some respect for yourself and your fans.
    stop being fake

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  19. I appreciate all your positive energy, but please don't ask people to add positive comments to this blog to outweigh the negative ones. Another thing, if people want to comment as anonymous, it's their choice because you have that option available on your blog. Let them hide their name, just like you and Jay have had been hiding the truth for a really long time now.

    I understand that an artist's professional and personal life should be separated, but they do overlap. You both have been lying for years now and this part of Jay's personality does not reflect what is portrayed through his music, and you supporting this is a shame. Also, it's ironic that you both preach about positive ideas on twitter, such as being truthful, but dont acually do it in real life?

    Yes, his fanbase is mostly girls, but did you two or the industry ever consider how these girls would feel when they find out that Jay is married, far past the stage of just having a girlfriend? What's worse is when they will find out that they've been lied to by an amazing artist they've supported for over 8 years.

    As a side note, to the whole Jay crew, because I know you will probably read this: let the fans have their own opinions, even if they are different. It seems like Jay is the only who respects their opinions. Read above what Nidhish said: "What gives them any right to have any sort of opinion?" I find this highly offensive, because as fans WE ARE allowed to have our own opinions and different opinions don't make us haters. I really do hope everyone reads this and Thara please don't delete my post this time because it is the truth.

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  20. Nidhish - What gives them any right to have any sort of opinion?....wow what gives you the right to have an opinion? is it your status as a "Part Time Celeb"? thats an impressive qualification

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  21. Hello Thara,

    How you doing? 1stly thank you so much for taking out your time to post such precious thoughts about true life incidents. Yes many a times even i do feel lost myself. Sometimes i wonder why am i even doing this or that when results are not very fruitful? But then again that's life? I agree with every statement or rather sentence written. Blogs / Advices do help to some extend. Its good to read all the positive notes but then again its also the courage to take and go further. I guess something i need to learn from u :)

    I thank you for being a part in all our lives and making every day more meaningful :)

    Yours sincerely
    Gurpreet Sidhu

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  22. Hey thara!

    Wow,such an inspiritional blog! keep doing what you gotta do because you have what it takes! and maybe write your own book!!! :)

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  23. And to "Anonymous" theres nothing wrong to give your own opinions but dont have to be always negative because it actually reflects what kinda person you are :)

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  24. Thara I absolutely love you and respect you so so much, please do not take in what haters say because even though I don't really know you, it is simple to tell that you're a women that works very hard each day with a positive and devoted attitude towards the future. On behalf of all your supporters, we hope you achieve your goal and some day be known to the world as a girl that gave up being a celebrity to support her one and only xx

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  25. Seetie: I'm not here to argue with you but my opinions are not negative, you just take them to be negative because they do not follow the "usual opinion." That's the thing that is wrong with Jay's crew, minus Jay, they react harshly to a opinion that is not conventional. And again, it doesn't make me a lesser of a fan and by no means a hater by having a different opinion. I was just stating the truth in a respectful manner.
    And thanks for telling me what kind of person it shows I am because it shows that I am not scared to show what I believe in, unlike you all that are too scared to write the truth.

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  26. Rashmi, you say thara gave up being a celebrity for her one and only. First of all she was never a celebrity. Shes done one album which was only released in japan and it barely sold and secondly she only gave up a chance of singing because if she didn't, her and Jay would be apart from one another too much to make their marriage work. Also the chance that he could cheat on her. So he and his management made thara a co-manager so she gets to go everywhere with him. They share their hotel rooms, he wears his wedding ring on his right hand and she alternates between left and right depending if she's gonna be photographed. I have a wedding picture and if only I could post it up to prove they are lying to everyone!

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  27. post it....prove it once and for all

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  28. wow!! so much drama going on here!!! hei thara loved ur post!! after thunder, sun comes out always!!

    i respect everybodys opinion. my opinion is that.... i mean who cares!! smile, laugh, listen to good music!! :D

    anonymous and friends, "I have a wedding picture and if only I could post it up to prove they are lying to everyone!" really? that was so stupid!! (if only i could post it up..) hahahahaha how retarded u r!!

    i dont care if jay is married, single, has a girlfriend.... watever!! he will always be jay!!

    thara dont ever stop ur blog cause of these morons!! and that is my opinion!! respect it like i respect urs!! ;)

    by: hitthechiken_js

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  29. To hitthechiken_js: calling someone "retarded" is disgraceful. Why call someone 'disabled' because they can prove thara and Jay are lying to fans and concealing sonething so huge just so they make more money by keeping a large fanbase as possible?? Here they are preaching in their tweets about being positive, telling the truth and perils of being good humans, eating healthy etc. I mean they are lying to their fans... Young girls. Just tell the truth. It doesn't matter as it's about the music and the fact they are married won't affect his food music or his status as an artist but he is lying and that affects how he is as a businessman. He would rather conceal his relationship to make as much money from his fans than be honest and upset a few. Pictures of their marriage were leaked on the net and taken down as his team threatened legal action. One day it'll all come out. What happens when they decide to have kids?? Hide that child too??

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  30. Oh my god. They are married?? I did think maybe something was going on as they always together and he's called Thara's dog his dog and someone said they saw them both in a sandals resort in Antigua on honeymoon. Jay always bangs on about how much he loves his fans, do you lie to the people you love??

    Good blog though thara. Even if it's all fake now...

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  31. wow guys...to much drama, just stop it alrite pls respect her its her blog..and stop commenting things that your not supposed to..its up to them to tell us or not, as a fan whatever happens we still support them all the way..for now pls respect thara

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  32. Seetie, this is the only place that we can write this stuff because they will read it and yes it's up to them to tell us, but don't you think that they should've already told us? Now, I know what you guys are all thinking, he doesn't want to put Thara in the spotlight. Fine. But don't you think we should at least deserve to know that he's married? and has been through the whole time in interviews he's said he's single or has a girlfriend.

    Everyone read Meena D's comments, they will make you think again if you don't already agree. A lot of you guys think that it's his personal life, and it is, but his lying plays a part into who he is as a person. His music, his positive tweets, his personality in interviews, they all seem fake when you know that you are being lied to. I never realized that all this lying could be done for money until reading some of these comments, but now sadly I do. I have been a fan for 8 years and I just can't wait until all this comes out.

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  33. How can we respect someone that lies to her "fans"?! she tweets about being honest, yet she cant be honest to her fans! everybody knows they are married, so why dont they just come out and admit it! their twitter pics and tweets prove this all! plus their wedding pic is on the internet!

    maybe if they told the truth, people would have more respect for them!

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  34. After all its their personal thing, they make their own decisions they have their own reasons they are old enough to think maybe older then you.. if you say that youve been supporting them for 8 yrs why do you care so much im sure you know jay sean better

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  35. @ Anonymous...
    Fix your life. I dont understand why you think its ok to write your bullshit opinions on this blog. Just because you are writting this from behind a screen, doesnt mean your words have no effect. Its bad as saying it to someones face. And you know what the sad thing is..your following all of us on twitter.? Cause who have the link to this, and know that "Nidesh" is Nid Poppa.
    I don't even know how you call you self a fan...dont even know how you call your self a human. Why do you need to being people down for no reason?

    Why does any of this matter to Jay Seans music? We're fans of his MUSIC. and NOTHING else matters, if so then your a fan for all the wrong reasons.

    And how can you even say no one besides Jay respects the fans.?
    The WHOLE crew respects us so much! They don't even have to talk to us, yet they take the time to tweet us, set up ustreams, get involved with our TT's. THEY DO EVERYTHING for us. We are So thankfull for them.

    Thara is amazing, to be honest with out her things would be crazy!!
    I have so much respect for her, and for you to stayy stuff like that makes me want to rip you apart.

    She doesn't have to write these blogs..she does is for us..so we have updates, so she can spread some POSITIVITY ..which you clearly lack.


    It's people like you who make this world a worst place.

    ( Anon, hope you fall in a pile of shitt.)

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  36. im soooo angry ryt now i had 2 comment... who is this idiot being so mean 2 thara... we LOVE thara n jay married or unmarried u guys r still awesome ... i like askin if ur'll r married bt honestly it wouldnt change anything it doesnt change the fact that jay's music is amazing n his voice is angelic n he is extremely talented... wat im tryin 2 say is we love jay n nothing can change that n we love u 2 thara n i am so happy that jay has such an amazing n strong woman behind him ... so keep doing wat u doing coz u r absolutly amazing at it :)) the haters r just jealous of ur awesomeness :)

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  37. If you called yourself a fan, be like one!

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  38. amna you are an idiot if you think they care about you....its all about the $$$ all the lies, blogs, tweets, videos....they get paid for it, they do it so idiots like you will feel a connection, and spend your time and money on them

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  39. Amna, I guess you're still a little young girl whose parents haven't taught her to respect people's opinions and use an appropriate language. Oh well, the world will still go on without you.
    And Jay's crew sucks at what they do, nothing is ever done on time. Do you know when the album is releasing? Have you heard any promotion for the album? Exactly, nothing.
    And you all arguing with people that hold different opinions than you will not get you no where in life. So just stop all the swearing and hatred. We are just stating our opinions on here, not yelling at people that don't believe in what we do.
    Jay and Thara, I can't wait till you tell the world about your marriage so all these fans that think you guys really follow what you say in your tweets, interviews, and music will realize who you guys really are and will be utterly devastated.

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  40. @kayla u r really really mean jay sean is a genuine person n he really does love his fans he takes the time 2 reply 2 tweets n meet his fans its obvious he doesnt do it 4 the money if u ever meet him u wil instantly see that there is not a fake bone in his body .... he is such a humble n real person its so easy 2 see that jay does what he does 4 the love of it nt money ... i know the kind of celebs u speak about ... the 1's with the big egos that just want us 2 buy their music... bt lets nt generalize coz nt all celebs r like that its very easy 2 separate the authentic 1's 4rm the fake 1's by closely observin the little things they do .... trust me when i say jay sean is one of the authentic 1's who genuinely loves n cares bout his fans :)) so with all due respect will u plz stop sayin mean things bout jay when u obviously have no facts 2 back it up!!

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  41. Sheen told TMZ.com the reason he’s taken up Twitter is simply because it’s a “cash cow.” Charlie said his primary motivation behind his new dig is that he can score a fortune through advertising. Wow, this man is thinking, I think he’s right, it’s us that’s lost not him. Kim Kardashian reportedly gets a frekking $10,000 per tweet. What a life?

    still think they are doing for u

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  42. lol anon u fucken rocck im wid u on this 1 ;)

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  43. Thara ur blogs r truly great to read! Always worth the read :D In fact, whenever i read them, i think to myself "Okay, if Thara does not giv up and keeps going and going and going when her life is way more hectic than mine, than y am i complaining? Why am i not on the go flow?" Thnx :) So whenever i feel like im tired, i dont wanna do this! I think okay, Thara's life is crazier than me! I can, and i shuld :) So thnk u :) Tho my life is pretty hectic also! Haha.. sadly! But its all okay! :) If it was easy, everyone would do it. I luv that! haha.

    If u r Jay Sean's wife, i honestly wouldnt hate u, if ur his girlfriend, so wat? :D U make him happy, ur happy, and that is all that matters to his fans! Well to me at least, tho, if u guys r married and u hid that from us, that would be very sad because he's very dear to our hearts :( It would kinda b like the explosion of the apartment in NYC... i like u Thara, and if u r, omg congrats! :D But at the same time, i think we'd b more sad than happy not because he's married to u! But because we were kept behind a lie for so long from someone we all luv so much. I no it sounds kinda stupid, since he is a singer and his music should only matter but love doesnt really work like that :( even if we luv him in a respectable manner, we luv him so much but respect him even more is what thats supose to mean lol, but it does matter to us :( we do care :( because its about his happiness and we luv him to much to overlook such a big thing even if we want 2. If he has a girl friend and wants to hid that, that we can all understand and we all respect and we r happy for him BUT marriage is too big of a deal to ignore :( Its like saying we dont matter enough in his life so we shuldnt b told. Thats not how it works sadly :(

    But if ur not neither, LOL, omg i aplogoize from everyone! aha! Its just u wuld b great for him, atleast i think u wuld! :D ;) Hehe. In fact, for what u've done with him and how much u've helped him, i think u'd b the best choice! :D If not, than thats totally fine, whoever both of u r destined to b with r very lucky ppl and i no will no how to treat u both right <3 :)

    dont take what ppl r telling u to heart (haters comments) they're just saying it out of luv. Media is a powerful thing :( Sumtimes sum rumours, like this at least, need a little hint of clarification. U no wat i mean right? But i dont think swearing was right but when one is angry, they dont think straight at all.

    i hope ur journey gets better for u! Never giv up! :)
    luv u Thara!:D

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  44. Thara, AWESOME bloggg! :D Loved it! You go giirl! :P ♥

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  45. Love your blogs Thara! Your soo inspirational :) Can't wait to read the next :)Looovveeee your blogs!!!! :)

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  46. Thank You so much for writing the blogs Thara! It means a lot that you take the time to write them out for us very sweet of you :) Keep spreading your postivity :)Much Love <3

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  47. Great blog... Who cares if they are married or together?? It's about the music. Blogs are her experiences and thoughts. We as fans are part of their lives and if they were married don't you think they would tell us?? Way I see it, it's about his music. Who cares if an artist is in a relationship? I don't care as it doesn't make a difference to the music. If they are married then they'll tell us when they are ready and when Jay is an established artist in USA. Maybe they are recently wed and need time to get used to it abd juggle a personal relationship and his music career. Just let it be about music people! He's not lying... He's not saying they're not married is he?? Leave thara and Jay alone!

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  48. To the perso that made the last comment, they've been married since august 2009. So thats not recent. They've been together dating since 2007. They share an apartment. When Jay comes to UK she comes with him, even when he says he's visiting his family. She calls his family her UK family. They married in New Jersey and his invites were put under the name of thara weds Nicky so media wouldn't catch on. All the tweets, videos and ustreams are to 'keep' his fans loyal and anyone who works in PR/marketing will know that artists have to engage with their fans to make them feel part of his world. He's got good music but rest is all a lie. He is lying about his age too. He's a good 2 years older then he lets on to buy him more time in the industry. Also for people that look to her blogs for inspiration, who doesn't have a crazy life and gets through it?? Look at your mothers and fathers. They juggle having kids, jobs, family politics and many came to this country from india or Africa with no money and didn't fit into this society back in 1960s. That's inspiration . They got jobs that were hard to get, bought houses, cars, had kids... That's motivation and inspiration. Today's generation has it all handed down and given on a plate. Not saying Jay hasn't struggled but pl-ease.... Tharas words and blogs an inspiration?? Really?? Duping you suckers right in. No doubt some people will comment on this to agree and some will disagree. I know the truth as I know someone close to his family. That's all I'm saying.

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  49. I agree u with you M.D ;)

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  50. Anonymous(s)-

    I think they have enough respect, but they don't care for people like you who have nothing better to do than waste your time writing rude comments. I think you should read what you wrote:

    "There are millions of people with real problems, stop bitching"

    "fucking bitch you did just delete my post not only do you not say the truth but you don't let others say it as well."

    I don't think she is bitching. The whole point of a blog is to write what you want. If you don't like it, then don't read it. No one is forcing you to be a fan or follow someone on twitter or read their every comment. You said earlier that you have no respect for her... then why do you keep coming back to her blog and commenting on her blog. Heck, if you think she is lying to you as a "fan" or as a fan to jay sean, then don't be a fan...go stalk someone else's life... Dont be so angry and fill your heart with hate. Use that energy into something more productive.

    I wonder why you comment as anonymous though? Clearly you are on twitter and other social media. Why not show yourself instead of hiding behind the internet and your parents house? You talk about being honest etc., I think the real person that needs to be honest is you... until then, enjoy hiding your identity.... sad.

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  51. a fan of your blogs :) had the best comment!! it summarizes all!! wow!! i think @jaysean is laughing when reading all this comments... we fans are like leaches cause we want to know it allllllllllllllllllll!!! clup clup clup!! we just suck all his blood!! and if he wants to keep one drop of blood for him... we just turn crazy!! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!

    jay married, jay not married, jay dating, jay not dating............. well i say i dont care... but i have to face it... i really care :)

    hahha i wish he was married to me!! :)

    thara if its u than i stil love u!! :) soesnt mater and if its not u sorry!! :D well all this comments are a proof of how interested and carein leaches we r @jaysean!! we just love u!!

    i would love to go to @jaysean hous and ask jaysean mama!! "is jay married?" and if not... "can i marry him" hhaahhaaha!! just jokin!! love u @jaysean crew!! and my special muffin @jaysean ;) wiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii!!!

    hope this is the last comment...... i spend so much time reading all this shit!!! p.s.d. laughed so much when amna said "( Anon, hope you fall in a pile of shitt.) ". lol!! jaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyy seaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaannnnnn!!! love ur new not panda phrases!! so ridiculously funny!! like @jremyofm new name: elmer!! lol !! love u elmer!! hahaha!! elmer.

    from: hitthechiken_js

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  52. I couldn't have said it any better M.D.

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  53. EWWW he is 32 years old and thara smokes too!WHAT BIG FAT LIARS! THARA always sends her positive exercises tweets but she is a chain smoker thats why she is skinny! She can\t go a day without smoking. She smokes ten a day!

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  54. hey Thara

    awesome blog i just love reading it :)x

    well to everyone else stop it who gives if he's married like seriously jay will be jay even if hes married , or if hes single sheesh!


    love Simmy & Nimi (Jayseanfans_Aus)

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  55. i like pizza! (ok, know this blog is having crazy comments)

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  56. too true to ignore http://www.sjsevents.com/testimonials/view.php?id=53 i wonder who it could be

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  57. Wow anonymous where did you happen to find such amazing proof!?
    First of all, no picture with the testimonial? That was expected. Second, it's signed by "Natalie" and not Thara? Third, she has signed her last name as "Singh" not Jhooti.
    Wow Thara and Jay, seems like you had everything down to hide this day.
    But too bad the date, place, and city matches up with everything that people say online about the marriage.

    Honestly, just tell us the truth, it's been way too long and your fans are tired of being lied to.

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  58. cough cough her cousin's name is surya singh it's totally thara

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  59. The weekend of my wedding was truly the most beautiful and happy weekend of my life. I enjoyed every part of it from start to finish; whether I was laughing, crying, dancing, or eating. Every part of it was perfect.

    When I had first started planning my wedding, I had considered the idea of a wedding planner but then dismissed it because I had heard so many crazy stories about how much they cost! And I was already spending enough money and couldn't afford to add many more expenses. Then, when we were about 5 months away from my wedding day, my curiosity was peaked again. I had already done most of the planning and felt very secure in all of my choices. But I had one major concern. Who was going to make sure that I wasn't the director on the day of my wedding? Who was going to know what needed to be where and who needed to be where at a certain time? Who was going to make sure that the decorator set everything up the way that I had planned? My fiancé looked at me and said &34;Well isn't that what you have a bridal party for?&34; And I said &34;No!&34; I didn't want my bridesmaids to be running around franticly trying to make sure that everything was ok. I wanted them to be there with us, enjoying all of the wonderful moments. Everyone is so busy these days and I wanted my friends and family to have a weekend to enjoy. Wasn't that the point of all the planning, for people to enjoy everything with you? So I did some online searching and came across Sonal Shah. She had different packages available online and I thought, wow, this could work! That was the best decision I ever made and I now tell every bride I meet to make sure she gets herself a Sonal! Sonal and her staff were incredible. Even with all the planning I'd already done, they dug in even deeper to find the little things that I hadn't thought about. They spent over six hours with me creating my in depth itinerary that detailed every little moment that you could think of. And it was tedious but worth every second because when it came to the day of, I was able to relax because Sonal knew how I had envisioned things from beginning to end because she had taken that time to sit with me and figure out what was inside of my head. So on the day of my wedding, I didn't have to think. Not even for a moment...

    Sonal and her team had everything under control. And I was able to enjoy every second of our wedding weekend.

    I can't thank Sonal and her team enough for all their attentiveness and care to all that I had asked and more. I know for a fact that it would not have been so smooth without them. I truly feel that our wedding went off flawlessly and all of our guests truly agreed as well. I can't tell you how many calls I got saying how well put together the wedding was. Guests appreciate that. It's not just your wedding but a night off for your guests. They get all dressed up and they spend money to come share the time with you so it's nice if they enjoy themselves fully too!

    I highly recommend Sonal Shah for whatever it is you need, whether it's a wedding or a party. She does a beautiful job and is more than worth her cost! In essence, the services she provides are truly priceless.

    With warmest regards,

    Natalie Singh
    Aug 8,9, 2009
    The Venetian
    Garfield, NJ

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  60. What a liar look at this http://img27.imageshack.us/f/cbxbxcbxbcxbcb.png/

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  61. Amna, looks like someone's changed the side that they support. So next time please don't swear at us, we were only trying to tell you the truth, which you now obviously believe in.

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  62. Kamaljit Singh Jhooti[1][2] (Punjabi: ਕਮਲਜੀਤ ਸਿੰਘ ਝੁੱਟੀ (Gurmukhi); born 26 March 1981), better known by his stage name Jay Sean, is a British singer-songwriter, rapper, beatboxer and record producer of Indian origin.[3] He debuted in the Asian Underground scene as a member of the Rishi Rich Project with "Dance with You", which reached #12 on the UK Singles Chart in 2003. This led to him being signed to Virgin Records and having two UK top 10 hits as a solo artist in 2004: "Eyes On You" at #6 and "Stolen" at #4. They were included in his critically acclaimed debut album Me Against Myself which,[4] though only moderately successful in the UK, sold more than two million copies across Asia and remains his most successful album to date.[5][6][7] Alongside the Rishi Rich Project, Sean was a pioneer of Bhangra-R&B fusion, which his debut album helped popularize among the worldwide South Asian diaspora.[8]

    He eventually left Virgin in 2006 and founded his own independent label, Jayded Records. After a gap of nearly four years, he returned in 2008 with "Ride It", which reached #11 in the UK and topped the charts in several Eastern European countries, including Romania where it was one of the best-selling singles of the year. It was followed by hits such as "Maybe", which reached #7 on the Japan Hot 100,[9] and "Tonight". They were included in his second album, My Own Way, which became his most successful album on the UK Albums Chart, reaching #6, and topped the UK R&B Chart.

    Since the end of 2008, has he been signed to Cash Money Records. In 2009, his American debut single "Down" topped the Billboard Hot 100, making him the first solo artist of South Asian origin and first UK urban act to top the Hot 100.[10] It was the seventh-best selling song of 2009, having sold more than three million digital copies in the United States,[11][12][13][14] and six million copies worldwide,[15] making him the most successful British/European male urban artist in US chart history.[16][17] It was soon followed by another hit, "Do You Remember", which has sold more than a million copies in the US,[18] and entered the top ten on the Hot 100,[19] making him the first male act since Chingy in 2003 to "simultaneously appear in the Hot 100 top 10 with his first two charting singles."[20] They were included in his American-debut album All or Nothing, which debuted at #37 on the US Billboard 200 and reached #11 on the Japan Oricon Albums Chart.[21] Sean is sometimes referred to as a "one-man boy band"[22][23] and was ranked #35 in Billboard's Hot 100

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  63. liar liar.....

    http://www.loungeboard.com/forum/loiter-lounge/jay-seans-wedding-photo-26437-2/

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  64. http://img109.imageshack.us/img109/4999/27249381022981643656936.jpg


    real or fake??

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  65. A fan of your blogs :)April 13, 2011 at 10:29 PM

    Thara, i've been thinking about this for a while, and remember my last comment, well honestly, it doesnt matter :D If he's married or not, it's all good! He's a great person to look up to and his music is very enjoyable and he's just the perfect celebrity :D

    U do so much for us and him, the pictures, the blogs, the tweets, thank u so much :D I dont think there could ever have been a better co-manager than u!

    it was just a shock and i guess the comments got to my head a bit at that time... now its all crystal clear again :)

    Have a great time in LA! Hopefully u get to try a great healthy dish sometime soon! :) haha.

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  66. http://img109.imageshack.us/img109/4999/27249381022981643656936.jpg 
    The  picture of them is real. On the background you can see a man and lady, that's his parents. I know the family and it's all true, they are married. Even jays tweets revealed it: 
    Everyone has their RIGHT to keep sum things close to their heart. It's not lying. It's called privacy- sumthing that is so lost nowadays.
    Echofon • 14/04/2011 03:03

    Whatever Jay, it's bot for privacy you are lying, it's for money. Other celebs all reveal they are married... YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE CONCEALING IT. may not be lying but you are concealing it or keeping it private. Just say you are married and all these comments and fans will stop debating it. Everyone will leave you two alone and you can be sure in the future it won't all blow up in your face. Beyonce and jay z manage a professional career and are married, you guys are not as big as them so rest assured you will manage too!

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  67. hey M.D if you know the family...then do you know whether its true or not that she is pregnant??...because on her latest blog every1 is going mad commenting she is!

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  68. Thara is going out of her way to share positivity with people and in return she gets cyber abuse from a few who say their not haters but typing abuse and rude isnults is hate not love and this is what's very often the case social bullying. Before the whole freedom of speech is thrown at me or anyone again the fact is being able to publicly express a view or an opinion doesn't give anyone the right to be disrespectful as constructive criticism is one thing but foul language is just wrong. Nidish's comment wasn't trying to offend or insult anyone if read and understood he was just expressing his opinion over negative comments left and that those peoples opinions don't count it was'nt towards Jay Sean's geninue fans. Moving on if the people who call them Jay Seans were geniunally into his music they would not start attacking someone closely associated with him as there is a thin line between support and envy of others around him. Fact is Jay Sean does not need to justify anything that is significant in his personal life and neither does Thara. If you dig Jay Seans music and him as an singer then stop trying to constantly speculate into his private life as no one has the right to question or even comment on someone's personal life without knowing facts and basinfg their opinion negative comments on mere rumours or jumping to conclusions over rumours most of which have been fabricated or exaggerated and instead of ignoring them. People need to to stop and think before they start throwing accusations which have no basis. A few of you who have shown nothing but hate say we had respect for you Thara, we love Jay Sean, we respect Jay Sean because he respects his fans and their opinion etc how can some of the things some of you say about him and Thara be acceptable, Jay Sean and Thara won't lose geniune love and support of their genuine fans and supporters. If anyone who has been negative about things needs to go check themselves before calling themselves a fan, as true fans don't start dissing someone or people they may not know who plays a bigger part. Thara works really hard when it comes to the managing of Jay Seans career and him as an artist. Jay Sean's career as co-manager and well whether their is anything more to their working relationship then that is their personal life and they don't have to justify or owe anyone any explaination as some things are sacred and calling it a lie is just insulting and off key as if someone choses to keep their private life away from those they don't know then it's called preferences and choices to keep certain things private.

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  69. People should let them live their lives and leave them alone

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  70. No she is not pregnant... or if she is his family are not telling anyone.

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  71. Funny how peoples comments keep getting deleted on this blog by Thara not just the negative ones but also ones that back her up whether she is living a lie or truth that is her life but the media and public were right about her as a person in alot of ways

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  72. Thara's pathetic attempt at music flopped so she's now clutching onto Jay for fame and money as his manager and probably even his wife but the icing on the cake and what's really annoying is thara acting like her dump don't stink what a fake #getreal as Jay doesn't need you thara, you need him and sooner or later he will see your true colours and the way you treat his fans by warning them off from sending Jay messages on facebook, twitter through private and DM and that's not the half of it. Thara will get exposed it is only a matter of time.

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  73. The blogs by thara make an intersting read you can't fault her writing she's good but as a person she has got to drop the attitude and treating Jay's fans like their nothing. Some girls as young as 11 are actually scared of Thara and funny thing is Jay is abvilious to it. I only got to know this cos my boyfriends lil sister was one of the victims to her warnings and is 12 years old, talk about about insecurity thara

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  74. do u have any proof of her "warnings" towards his fans?? this is the first time im reading about her treating his fans this way!

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  75. I wasn't the vicitim so I don't have proof on hand but the people who have been victims do my 15 year cousin being one. A lot of Jays fans are young teenagers and are harmless as they are just fans and for someone who is representing Jay as his manager to warn them and scare them is jeopardising to his career and his accumulating fanbase. I feel sorry for Jay more so because she is his manager and despite them dating or being married she is toying with his career and that's wrong.

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  76. give it up, thara, just come clean....you were married in nj a year or two ago. do you think people are stupid or will you both do anything for the almighty dollar! what a joke! but then again, deception runs in your family.

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